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A delicious look — wellness begins at the dining table

“Wellness begins at the dining table” sounds like a pretty phrase — but it is meant literally. How and what we eat shapes our well-being and, yes, our appearance too. Three dimensions decide whether a meal becomes a benefit: what goes on the plate, how the table feels and whom you eat with.

What goes on the plate: food you can see

That good food shows in the face is no wellness myth but well documented dermatologically. Antioxidants from fruit and vegetables — vitamins C and E, carotenoids, polyphenols — protect the skin's collagen from oxidative stress; omega-3 fatty acids from fish, linseed or walnut oil dampen inflammation and strengthen the skin barrier; sufficient protein and water are the building blocks of firmness. Conversely, sugar, heavily processed dishes and trans fats demonstrably accelerate inflammation and skin ageing. There is no “beauty food” that works on its own — and a menu plan replaces neither skincare nor a doctor. But a wholefood, plant-accented, seasonal diet shows itself over the weeks in skin, hair and vitality.

In practice that means: fresh seasonal produce wherever possible, prepared to be easily digestible, from controlled cultivation; little sugar and few ready-made products. For drinks, water, tea or fruit juice instead of soft drinks — a good wine to round off a successful meal remains permitted, of course. Whoever wants to know more precisely will find the individually fitting framework in nutritional counselling.

How the table feels: atmosphere as an ingredient

The best menu loses its appeal at a joyless table — and gains at a beautiful one. A friendly, welcoming host, a calm, unhurried atmosphere and tasteful, uncluttered decoration all help decide whether a meal is remembered as a benefit or whether the feast turns into a frustration. Less is more here: a few harmonious accents make a table look more resplendent than a mountain of decorative trinkets.

Whoever wants to lay a wellness table can follow a few proven principles:

  • Table shape according to the number of guests: round or oval for small groups, angular (also combined into a long, T- or U-shape) from about six people
  • Room to enjoy: around 60 to 80 cm per setting so that nobody sits crowded
  • Lay crockery and cutlery in the classic order — from the outside in, in the order of the courses
  • Tune the colours of linen, crockery and decoration to the occasion and the season and let them follow one shared concept

Whom you eat with: the underestimated wellness element

Perhaps the most effective ingredient appears in no cookbook: company. The Oxford anthropologist Robin Dunbar has shown that people who eat in company more often are more content and more trusting, feel more strongly embedded in their community and have more reliable friendships. Shared meals, he suspects, evolved as something like a tool of social bonding. In company you eat more slowly, more mindfully — and the meal becomes a binding agent, not merely the intake of food. The shared table is thus no accessory of wellness but one of its active ingredients.

Wellness at the dining table is therefore neither a promise of dieting nor a drill in etiquette. It is the sum of what nourishes, what makes the setting beautiful, and those with whom you share. In good spa hotels — especially those with an ambitious kitchen — exactly this combination can be experienced: seasonal, careful food at a calm table, in relaxed company.

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By the Wellness Royal editorial team

Published on October 16, 2013 · Updated on September 24, 2022

Frequently asked questions

Can nutrition really influence the complexion?

Yes, that is well documented. Antioxidants (vitamins C and E, carotenoids), omega-3 fatty acids, sufficient protein and water support collagen and the skin barrier, while a “western” diet rich in sugar and trans fats encourages inflammation and skin ageing. No single food is a miracle cure — and nutrition replaces neither skincare nor a doctor. But as a foundation it works visibly.

What belongs on a wellness table?

Fresh, seasonal and easily digestible dishes, plant-accented and from controlled cultivation, with little sugar and few ready-made products. With them water, tea or fruit juice instead of soft drinks — a good wine to round things off is allowed. Just as important is the atmosphere: a calm, beautiful, uncluttered table.

Why is the atmosphere at a meal so important?

Because it eats along with you. A warm host, a relaxed, unhurried mood and a tasteful table decide whether a meal is remembered as a benefit. Haste, carelessness or overloaded decoration spoil even the best menu — less is more here.

Does eating together make you happy?

Robin Dunbar's research suggests so: those who eat in company more often are more content, more trusting and better socially embedded. Shared meals strengthen bonds, and in company you eat more slowly and more mindfully — an underestimated wellness factor.